Ballet19...
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So I need help with my best friend pleassse?
Okay, So my best friend met this guy on the 1st day of school. She all of a sudden got this huge crush on him this week. (when they started talking) Three days ago he didn't even know her name. He asked her if they can be friends with benefits. She said to me "It dosent mean he wants sex really" so she said yes. Two days ago he kissed her. Now he wants to skip a whole day with her tommorrow ! She has always said no to skipping with me but how can she skip with this guy she barely knows ?
I feel so hurt :/
by Tee C
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Omg no!plez don't let her skip wit him my bestfriend does the same thing...leaves skool to go on these dates wit all these random guys and it makes me nervous....even tho nothing has never happened to her it could...but anyway if he's a *** enough for him to ask her sumthin like that he's a *** enough to try sumthing he shouldn't wit her so I would advise her not to go wit him...he jus might want sex..that whole friends wit benefits is a bigg *** excuse for guys to be whores and if a girl says yes to it she's basically putting her heart out there for a gamble
And don't feel bad that she won't skip skool wit yu...yu shouldn't be doing that anyway lol
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- Thanks. She didn't skip after all :)
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by ~Redhead...
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Tell her. I know how you feel. I've been the best friend, but only when i 'm not doing something with this guy before.
But don't worry about it too much. its probably teenage hormones getting the best of her. :)
Best of Luck
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by Shin AYY!(=
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um, best friend should be putting chicks before well you know whats. tell her you feel left out and if she still goes out with this guy well all you can do is warn her that he is just using her.
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by Jessilyn...
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You should really tell her how you feel.
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by Dokidoki
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chick before dicks
tell her how you feel and talk to her about it
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by king
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sad, i guest that your kinda now the 3rd wheel
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by BADNESS
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You feel hurt with good reason!!! She is going to be with this guy is he from school? Is this a good thing? Hope she knows him as far as what they are doing. Hey call your friend and tell her that she will look really trachy when he talks and people find out that she knew him 3 days and kissed and are friendas wityh benifits. Heck yeah he is planning on sex!!!!!!!!! Better tell your friend that she may end up having a bbay with a friend with benifets that she knows 3 days and she can rasie the kid and tell it what she did. How she dogged her friend. YEP be real call her and say your a idiot and you are not a real friend. You wouyld not ever do this with me but your willing to have a day away with a guy and you are dumb if you believe he will not pressure you you already said yes and this is why he is moving soooo fast as you already bit his bait and he is planning on sex. Yeah why not at least have a boyfriend ??!!! Be honest and move on and make a new friend. Yeah thi s sucks but she just showed you how she really feels!! Sorry!!