Do you guys think things would be different if two best friends started dating?

Question

My friend and I want to know if things would change between us if we started dating. Her and I talk more than her and her boyfriend who is also my other best friend we usually talk ranging from an hour to about 3 maybe 4 hours....do you think things would change between us?

Answer 1

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Yes things would change. It could go either way really. A friendship is a good foundation to start a relationship. You already know what you like or don't like about each other and what you can live with. My current boyfriend and I started out as enemies (well maybe that's a little harsh, but I couldn't stand him. He's beyond honest and always right). Then he weasled his way into my circle through my guy friends and we slowly became friends. I think I should note here that he asked me out at random intervals the whole time... We've been dating for a few months now and everything's pretty easy. All the getting to know you awkwardness is non-exsistence for us.

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Answer 2

Listen to yourself, this girl is dating your best friend.

How betrayed do you think he would feel if his best friend and his girlfriend begin to date?

I suppose your immaturity level answers that question.

Please, there are many girls out there to date. This girl friend of yours is unavailable. Do not pick someone elses girl. That is rude and totally wrong on so many levels.

If you two get together, your relationship will soon end because it was initially built on deceit and betrayal to the other guy. People who begin a relationship before breaking up and others who break up a relationship are an untrustworthy pair, for sure.

Answer 3

That would just be really sad and mean for her boyfriend who is you're other best friend
But usually it's best to start off being best friends before you start dating because that way you won't feel uncomfortable around each other and you would already know a lot about each others interests and dislikes

Answer 4

It would just get better. If you already have the foundation laid for a good relationship, the only thing that can happen is that things get better than what they already are. As long as your relationship has a good foundation, has God in it, and has a mutual trust; it will be good!

Go for it & be happy!

Answer 5

it wil change everything. and when u break up u guys might never talk to eachother again and ruin it. ad its ur best frinds gf, dude. if u feel that ur relationship is really firm then fine go ahead and try but from personal experience, it breaks up a lot of great friendships.

Answer 6

yes, for the better, brings the group closer, assuming they don't have an ugly break-up.